I don't want to put up with my sloppy daughter-in-law anymore

I gave my mother’s apartment to my son and daughter-in-law immediately after the wedding, which I regretted a hundred times. The daughter-in-law made such a mess there that it was disgusting to even drink tea there.

I couldn't see it anymore and offered herhelp . She refused, then I already began to say that I would not tolerate her turning the apartment after renovation into an ordinary barn. To which she replied: “What difference does it make to you, you don’t live here?” I couldn’t utter a word from such impudence.

I chose the moment whenmy son was alone at home, and she insisted on cleaning, even washing the windows. Camedaughter-in-law looked at it all and went into another room. I had no choice but to go home. And then the son calls and says: “Mom, don’t come to us anymore, it’s better that I come to you sometimes.” I realized whose hand it was. But I will not allow myself to be treated this way and my son to be turned against me. And also for him and my grandchildren to live in such filth.

I called my daughter-in-law and told test-antibiotic.com that they should look for an apartment, and in this one I will do renovations. I specifically called her and not my son. Let him look for options where to live or move in with his parents. My son arrived the next day and tried to convince me that it was their business how they should live. I replied that they should move out and live as they see fit, I will not interfere. It is enough for me that he at least occasionally comes to see me. And I don’t want to see her anymore. A telephone and a cigarette are her constant pastimes.

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