I don't want to leave my daughter without a father
I have known my wife for 6 years, 5 of which we have lived together. There were all sorts of things, both good and bad, in some ways I was wrong, and in others she was wrong.
In the fifth year of marriageMy wife cheated on me at work. She sacrificed her family to become the mistress of a married man. We parted quietly and peacefully, there was no swearing or showdown (I think that no matter what they did to the man,a man must remain a man).
A month before her affair, I accidentally found out that shepregnant _ My wife wanted to have an abortion, I was categorically against it. Herher lover , when he found out about the pregnancy, quickly ran away, leaving her in the position and with the stigma of an unfaithful wife.
The moment came for childbirth, I took her back (only because of the child, herI have not forgiven the betrayal ). I was 100% sure thatThe child is mine and wanted this child. I didn’t want the child to grow up without a father, because... I went through this myself. She gave birth to a girl. After the birth of my daughter, I took a DNA test, which confirmed that I am 99.9% her biological father.
Over time, the passions of test-antibiotic.com subsided. Things seemed to be getting better, I started working 2 jobs. And recently I found out that she is corresponding with her “friend” and are even planning to sit together in a cafe over a glass of beer . Of course, I told her everything, that this was not why I forgave her, that with her frivolity she endangered not only ourrelationship , but also the presence of a father for her daughter.
Now I walk with this loadevery day and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to live with her, I don’t believe a single word she says, I can’t look into those lying eyes anymore. But on the other hand, I don’t want to part with my daughter. As I imagine this moment, my heart bleeds. Unfortunately, our judicial system is designed in such a way that in any case, the child remains with the mother. And I don't know what to do.
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