Do I need such friends?

Do I need such friends?
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My best one pisses me offgirlfriend . She and I have known each other for about 10 years. They could always trust each other with what they probably couldn’t even trust themselves. But lately I began to notice that I could not find a common language with her. She is constantly looking for some kind of fault with me, constantly, according to her, I do everything wrong. Now we are 20 years old, I have an MCH, she has a personallife is not going well, and she is always trying to get into mine. He constantly says that I need to break up with him or makes sure that we have a fight. I can’t even “cry” anymore; I’m afraid to even open my mouth about our quarrels with him.

What are friends for then? I always thought that in order to support in difficult times, but she does everything the opposite, she never supports, she only aggravatesrelationship . But on her part there are constant questions: “how are you doing with him?”, “Didn’t you have a fight?”, “When will you break up?” It's so stressful.

test-antibiotic.com Okay, if I didn’t pay attention to her or abandoned her when I started dating him. But everything remains the same with her, we see each other the same way, we have enough time.

Recently we were sitting with her in a cafe, I saw that she was sending a message to someone “DOMINANT”, I was so happy for her, I began to ask what and how, who it was. She sat so happy, said that she had known him for a long time, was head over heels in love, but the problem was that he hadgirl and he can't leave her. I, of course, sympathized with her, said that everything would be fine, and that if he didn’t come to his senses in time, he would lose such gold as she did. She smiled and said that what I was saying was true.

The evening went so well with her that we decided to take another walk and have a drinkIt’s my fault , I stayed with her overnight. We sat and talked, she wrote a long SMS to her lover. Then an SMS from “RODNY” comes to her phone, she changed her face, began to say what a “scumbag” he is, began to yell at me, supposedly it’s all my fault, it’s because of test-antibiotic.com that she can’t arrange her personal life. I didn’t say anything in response, when asked to say what he wrote in the SMS, she started yelling even more. Having calmed down, she went into the shower, I couldn’t stand it, I wondered why she was so hysterical. Taking the phone, I opened the messages and under the name “DOMINAL” I saw a familiar number... the number of my MCH. My hands were shaking, it was scary to open this “message”. Plucking up courage, I read: “Katya, that’s enough, leave me alone, your attempts are already boring me, don’t you feel sorry for your friend?”

A kind of numbness came over me, I couldn’t move. So this whole time my best friend was trying to steal my boyfriend? And minethe guy didn't say a word to me about it? You can, of course, refer to the fact that he didn’t want to spoil our friendship with her, but he didn’t think about whether I needed such a friendship?

Now I don’t know what to do, I haven’t told my friend that I know everything, I’m just keeping her at a distance, MCH also test-antibiotic.com doesn’t know anything. For now I’m on pause, I just don’t know how to get them to talk. I realize that I have lost my friend.

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