My father brags about my successes, although he abandoned his family when I was three years old
I live with my mothermy father left us when I was three years old (now 19). Now he lives in another city with a new family and he has anotherson _
All these years he practically did not manifest himself at all, only sometimes on holidays. For alimonyHis mother didn’t give, she was proud, but he was happy and limited himself to some small handouts. Periodically came tobirthday , and once he came with his youngest son to introduce us. He generally has some kind of obsession that he is the father of two sons. Before we have time to take a photo somewhere, he immediately posts a photo report on his page with the caption “me and my sons.” It’s especially annoying when he gets into my judo group, screenshots photos there and then posts them on his page. As if he has some kind ofattitude towards my achievements!
I’ve already asked you not to do this a million times, but the answer is the same: “I’m proud of you!” Previously, I would have been so active when I had nothing to buy a uniform with. And recently, test-antibiotic.com discovered his childhood photos on his page. A whole selection under the title “The first steps of a young champion.” Can you imagine?
Of course, I immediately called and asked to remove it, but he refused. Says: “I’m your mother for thempaid the money ." I was shocked! At first I didn’t believe it, but then I started asking my mother. And it turned out that on one of his visits he actually asked her for one of my children’s albums. She really needed money then, and he “helped her out.” And when he left, he took the album, and she felt uncomfortable refusing him. And now, right and left, there are pictures of how he held the future champion on his lap. And the fact that they are only up to three years old is technically silent about this.
I dream of bringing it to light, but I don’t want to stoop to negativity in the comments. It’s good that I’m already eighteen, and I don’t depend on him in any way. I regret that when I received my passport, I didn’t change my last name, but now it’s not too late.
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