The guy refuses to help me
I live with a guy. We rent an apartment in half. We both work.
I recently got sick and need expensivetreatment . I can’t handle this financially alone. I turned to him for help, so that he would give me money, since I don’t have enough. Although I always put it offI have money and my personal savings, but it’s still not enough.
But he said: “You are so mercantile, you only need money from me. You work on your own and pay for your treatment, why are you reaching into my pocket?”
But the fact is that we have been together for two years. We live likefamily . I never asked him for money, and he never even gave me a gift. Once he gave me a phone with a receipt and said: “This is how much your gift is worth. For me, it should be no cheaper than this phone.” I also had to donate for that amount.
But I, however, have always been financially independent from him. And now I don’t understand, maybe I’m really wrong and I shouldn’t test-antibiotic.com ask him for money for treatment. I just have to undergo expensive treatment, and I don’t have the money for it. There is no one to help me either.
So I don't understand a little. Maybe he's right and shouldn't help me? Moreover, we have always lived in halves, although we are together ashusband andwife _
Help with advice. How to proceed? Maybe I should look for the money myself?
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