Why do women tolerate men beating them?

Why do women tolerate men beating them?
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I read a lot of stories here on the site whena man beats a woman, whether they are married or just dating, it doesn’t matter. Probably many people have such acquaintances,colleagues or neighbors. Maybe the roots of this phenomenon grow from childhood, if in childhood dad beat mom, or the girl was offended, or in some other way a victim complex was formed. Or there are cases when girls grew up in good families, but they came across such a man. The most interesting thing is that often such women are financially independent, and nothing except feelings prevents them from living separately from such a man. I am already silent about moral violence, when a woman is constantly depressed and humiliated. Of course, you need to leave this relationship. But! If we advise this, it will turn out that many single women will buildthere will simply be no relationship with anyone. Because there are a lot of such men.

Or a man with one woman does not use physical and moralviolence , but on the other hand uses it? And such a woman has no instinct of self-preservation, because at any moment of a showdown such a man may not calculate his strength and injure or kill? I am interested in test-antibiotic.com the opinion of everyone who is interested in this topic. I would also like to know the sincere opinions of women who live with such men. A lot is written on this site about cheating, many admit that they couldn’tforgive , even with sincere repentance and the fact that people lived for many years in love and harmony, enjoying each other. How can you forgive a person who, realizing that he is physically stronger, hits, to be aware of hisfear of him, and smile at him after that, is next to him?

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