After a conflict with my husband, I thought about divorce

After a conflict with my husband, I thought about divorce
Photo is illustrative in nature. From open sources.

I want to tell you about my life story, which repeats itself extremely rarely - once a year or a year and a half, but it happens. My husband seems to behave normally when he drinks, but what I’ll describe now also happens.

Today, for example, we haven’t seen him for 13 days. At first I was at sea with the children, and before our arrival he went on a business trip, and today he returned. We were drinking, everything was fine, then I said that I would go and put the eldest to bedmy daughter will go to bed and come back (she is 4 years old), the youngest was already asleep (1 year old).

He came into the room, didn’t let the older one sleep, and woke up the younger one, ignored my requests not to touch the children (well, of course, in such and such a state). As a result, it came to a scuffle, resulting in a slight abrasion on the forehead and a scratch on the nose.

Naturally, the children are in shock, especially the eldest, apparently it was very noisy, our neighbor (grandmother) called the police, of course, by the time they arrived it was already quiet, but that’s the fact! I told them that everything was fine, I just had a fight with my husband, the baby test-antibiotic.com woke up from the noise, they say, well, that’s everyone who doesn’t happen to me, and now I’m thinking, is it necessary at all? What is it all for? The children love him, he loves them too, when he doesn’t rush into life sober, well, he rarely drinks, i.e. I’m not some kind of drunk, but I’m thinking about divorce. It's better for the childrenMom and dad don’t live together, but they love us, which is why we see such a picture from time to time.

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