After having a baby, I found myself in a dead end.

I am 27 years old, my husband is 35, we got married 2 years ago. Now andthe child is 1.4 years old. We live with my parents, I lived with my mother-in-law for 2 months, I moved out of there, it’s impossible to live with her, turn off the water, the lights are on in vain. It got to the point that she suggested cutting her hair, it takes a lot of water to wash her hair, althoughher husband paid her for everything. I went to my mother as soon as I became pregnant, my husband did not go with me, he moved when the child was born. And then all hell broke loose. The child was always screamingbreast problems . My husband immediately lost interest, ultimately ran away from his problems, slamming the door, and my husband returned himMother . Made sense, likefamily and all that.

I went to a meetingMy husband was put to bed separately so that he could get enough sleep; he did not approach the child at all and did not help around the house either. After the caesarean section, I did everything myself, my mother helped as much as she could, and also worked. My husband has a stable income, brought what the child needs, and that’s all. The child was sick all year, we bounced around to hospitals. Closer to the year, I asked to hire a nanny, but my husband said: “I don’t trust strangers,” and I was so tired that I just wanted to die. All the housework is on me: washing, cleaning, cooking, childcare. My husband never even learned how to change the baby’s diaper, let alone feed him or take him for a walk.

And now all day long I’m alone with my child, to my requests let’s go, let’s go somewhere, my husband replies: “Go on your own, I’ll look after the baby,” although he doesn’t even know how to hold him and knows perfectly well that I won’t trust him and will stay Houses. And so for 1.5 years, the mother is also not eager to sit with her grandson, I generally keep quiet about the mother-in-law, the child is disgusting to her. AboutIt’s a shame to even write sex , because we don’t have it. But my husband doesn’t have a mistress either, I checked it several times. Please help me with advice on what I should do? Why does my husband behave this way, and how can I fix it? I’m so tired of sitting within four walls, I can’t leave my child with anyone, my husband won’t give me money for a nanny. I just need a break from everything.