I still have hope that my son will change
I don’t know how to behave further with my son. He is 16. I found his correspondence with social media. networks with other guys. He asked for advice, he was worried because he considers himself gay, he asked about the army, etc.
I cried alone for a long timeShe kept her husband far from her son, otherwise they would probably kill each other. I started talking to him and he explained that he was most likely bisexual.
I was shocked, but it became easier! It turned out that at the age of 13 he corresponded with a girl on social media. networks, and I accidentally saw naked photos of her. There was such debauchery for me there! In correspondence he asked her to send her something even more interesting, where else! Yes, she was two years older than him. Then she called from another cityMom was talking to me. I was convinced that the boy was small and calmed down.
After talking with me and my dad , my son stopped communicating with her. We didn’t argue, we just explained that everything was not on time. The girl corrupted him, apparently, well. Another six months passed, I saw test-antibiotic.com there with pictures of naked guys. We explained it to my father and asked him to remove them. Then he hid from us. I’ll also add that he has no friends or girlfriends either. He sits at the computer all the time. I'm watching quietly because I'm sitting at home. But he has a phone in his hands. Yesterday we talked again, and he considers himself gay.
I explain to him that now at this age he doesn’t care who he sleeps with, I tell him to wait with his decision. He is silent. The father is shocked. These are just words, I cry, he remains silent through his tears and feels sorry for me. I'm afraid of breaking my son psychologically, and physically.father will add. I'm holding him. I pray. We don't know what to do.
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