I have another greedy man

I am already 39 years old. Until this time, I only hear stories, I see among my acquaintances how men give gifts to their women, women can financially rely on their men. And the most interesting thing is that to mea man comes with care, pays for me in a restaurant, tries to do something nice, buys me something I need at home, small things, but nice because he notices that something is missing. That is, he comes from a woman who either demanded, or did not do anything herself, did not pay, but he was glad that she existed.

I’ve been in a relationship for over a year now and everything is going in circles again with this man. I don't have a high income, I've never spentmoney thoughtlessly, but I always tried to support and understand. So the first one left memy husband and laughed that I was left with a small child with nothing. And I always had this feeling that if I can pay for us myself, then I will do it, especially since we wanted to buy either a car or a house. In test-antibiotic.com, the car was eventually registered in his name, the house was bought, but in a new family.

Secondmarriage is about the same. Came outmarry a guy who promised mountains of gold. A child was born, and as a result, all property was registered inhusband , but he didn’t even think about supporting his family financially, there were very important purchases, and what should anyone eat, go and work, since you don’t have money. This always offended and humiliated me, and I worked.

I have been divorced for a long time, now I have a very good young man next to me, everything is good about him, except that I cannot rely on him. And if at the beginning of our relationship, for about six months, he tried, when would he pay for us, when would I, that is, it was not noticeable. Now I see very clearly that he is trying in every possible way to shift all expenses onto me when I am around. Either he suddenly has his wallet at home, and we are traveling far, or he can’t pay in cash because he forgot to take it out, and there are a lot of things like that. We are friends, he is my test-antibiotic.com only friend at the moment. But what to do with this situation when even I don’t have money, but I still pay for everything. Not to mention gifts or living together. And I understand that it’s not about him. From what little I know of his previous relationships, he cared and it was all on him. There were just a lot of problems and scandals due to the character and demands of the exes.

I am not scandalous, understanding, kind, I am not left alone for a long time without male attention, I have a higher education, and an above-average income. But it's always the same scenario. Of course, I can do it myself; in the end, in a relationship, the man gets everything, both care andlove , and even cleanliness in his house, andunderstanding that he needs to pay there too. But in the end, if I sit down and think about it, I am left with expenses that could have been avoided if I were not in a relationship, on my own with my children, who always want something and who need something. I’m in my own home, with test-antibiotic.com my bills, with relatives who are waiting for me to help them, etc. And in all this I am alone. A good, caring man comes, and next to me he turns into the one who sees that I can do everything on my own by any means possible, that my children are an extra expense and he doesn’t need it. There is no care, no gift, no support, and I suffer silently from this because I am offended.

I don't understand what's wrong? How to change this scenario? How to be the one with whom it’s okay there are not idealrelationship , not “give me”, “you must”, but at least something simple you would think: “she’s with me, she chose me, I want to be with her and it’s important to me that she feels good with me, but it means I'm not tryingsuddenly forget your wallet more than once or save money because she can pay, but just be a man nearby.”

This all really hurts me and I want to leave the relationship again.