This is how to forgive betrayal
Married for 25 years. Seven 7 years ago I forgave the betrayal and withdrew the divorce petition. I didn’t know what to think or do then. On the one hand, there is anger, resentment from which you want to run away, a feeling of humiliation. On the other hand, I still lovedhusband . Besides, I hada daughter who really missed her dad.
I rushed from one decision to another. My husband knocked doorsteps, called me every day, beggedforgive . As a result, now my husbandmistress , also married, 17 years younger than him. Like, for health. Meetings in hotels, holidays abroad.
Maybe I would have tried to move on with my life, but I heard what kind of abomination was being poured on me to please her, and she also agreed. Both immediately became enemies for me.
It was difficult, 4 months ago I was going crazy. The dependence on him was terrible (not only material, but also psychological). Now I work, make ends meet, my children help (17 and 19 years old), I did a lot of things, worked on myself.
Now I'm completely freehusband walks with a mouse in test-antibiotic.com house. I’m finishing the privatization and getting a divorce. He realized that I didn’t need him at all. I feel great, I do what I want. Although I work for almost pennies, I have everything in the refrigerator. Self-esteem is a ten. I realized that I was stupid, that I suffered, that I need to value myself. Drive with a broom, if not from the house, then from the heart for sure. I have never been as free and happy as I am now.
Read together with it:
- I survived the blows of fate thanks to my adopted childMy long-awaitedpregnancy ended in an unsuccessful birth, the death of the baby and the removal of the uterus. For melife stopped, I didn't live, I just existed. My husband was in another country during the birth and after learning about what happened, he never came, and I didn't want to be a burden ...
- I want to leave my husband and achieve my goalsThe problem is that I want to return to my hometown, as I already wrote in this confession, and I decided that I want to get away fromhusband for the second time. We are divorced and have a child. At first I thought that I just wanted to go back to my hometown, but only with my husband. But now I re...
- I don't want to go back to work after maternity leaveMy daughter is three years old, and it's time for me to go back to work. I don't want to, but I can't tell anyone about it. I know thatmy husband won't support me in this,a mother who works even after retirement will not understand. While I was on maternity leave, I was so immersed in caring for the...
- I hate someone else's childI decided to write here, I have no strength to endure it any longer and pretend that everything is fine. I am 24 years old. I havebeloved and lovinghusband ,daughter . Married for 2 years, known each other for 4. We live in perfect harmony, sometimes we quarrel, but it's small stuff and we make up q...
- My husband became disgusting to meMy husband was worried that minethe body after childbirth will become completely unattractive. But I reassured him, because I myself believed that I could quickly recover. Although I gained a decent amount of weight during pregnancy, I thought that immediately after childbirth I would do exercises, ...
- I want to complain about my husband's relativesThe youngestBrother husband wants to get married and proposed to the girl (we found out about it from the Internet, histhe girl published this). Yesterday in a conversation with my husband it turned out that if my brother can't earnmoney (there is war in the country, there is no work), thenMy husban...
- Should I help my ex-wife?I have been reading confessions here for four years now. But I have never written anything myself. I understood that asking for advice in the situation with my ex-wife cheating was pointless.I couldn't go on vacation. I wentwife with a child. She had a holidayaffair with a foreigner 12 years her jun...
- My mother-in-law insulted me and I can't forgive herIt also occurs to methe question of whether to make peace or not with the mother-in-law, as in the author's story about a quarrel and reconciliation with his daughter-in-law and son.My husband and I have been together for 19 years. We have two sons. At that time, we lived in a rented cozy house, whe...