An adult son lives with everything ready-made and does not want to change anything
I have a problem communicating with my adult son. We live in a 4-room apartment, which is not possible to change. I'm sorry thatthe son looks like a lodger, doing nothing in the house. The computer leaves, comes, and does not take responsibility for everyday life at all.
I would like help, but more than at least a little interest on his part. I’m trying to ask for help, trying to prove that I’m ashamed of some arrangement in front of the guests, but he replies: “I won’t do it here.”
I’m retired, I do everyday household chores, there are some things I can’t do alone, some things I’m not tall enough to do, and I just want simple communication in the evening. Both cleaning and cooking - everything is on me. What words will “reach out” to complicity on his part? To call a “husband for an hour” you needmoney that is barely enough for necessities. I love my son, he is a good person, but there are some things I say and do wrong.
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