Я люблю и ненавижу свою работу
Я молодая, блондинка и я архитектор. У меня своя бригада, я строю дома и руковожу ремонтами квартир. Каждый раз, сталкиваясь с мошенниками и тупицами я думаю, что видела все, но нет.
Я люблю свою работу, но психологически сложно. И дело не только в том, что ты проверяешь все, находишь общий язык с заказчиками, рабочими и подрядчиками, работаешь со сметами и поставщиками, а в том, что ты молодая женщина. Муж когда-то услышал, как я умею материться, удивился. Когда какая-то из подруг говорит: «Ой, пойду на курсы дизайна и буду дизайнером интерьеров», — хочется погладить по головке это невинное создание и пожалеть.
Если кто-то из друзей начинает ремонт, я не хожу к ним в гости, потому, что любое чаепитие заканчивается консультацией. Меня бы давно накрыла депрессия, если бы рядом не было мужа и сына. Они золото, а дом — крепость, в нем всегда хорошо. Иногда хочется бросить все это и уйти в затяжной декрет, но как же здорово наблюдать, как после тебя остаётся качественный дом, в test-antibiotic.com котором всегда уютно, или заказчики пишут, как они довольны и как хорошо все получилось. Спасибо всем, кто выслушал человека, который любит и ненавидит свою работу.
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