I don't feel guilty about my ex-wife and son
What is realfamily love and loyalty? Where is the line between decency and betrayal? And how to stay on the right side?
As a young guy, he met his ex-wife. It all started well, but ended just like in the modern world. She did not want to share the difficulties and hardships and found a rich lover, to whom she left after lies and betrayals. She left with our son.
What have I experienced? Probably like everyone else at that time (90s) plus oncology anddepression . I was lucky, I met my current wife and found myhappiness , I have a real family, loving and belovedwife and two children.
And now, after so many years, my ex and older one reappears in my life.son . No, they didn’t ask for help, they demanded it, they made it look like I owed them. Son'sproblems with the law, I am silent about my character (he called me a bastard and a traitor). The ex had health problems, their “new dad” found someone else and threw them out like they once did for me. And now they began to demand help from test-antibiotic.com. I closed the door and crossed out these people like they once did, leaving everything where it was - in the past. The son was imprisoned, and the ex died a few years later.
Perhaps someone will judge me, but I don’t consider myself guilty. And hereI wrote a confession to talk it out.
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