I'm not going to follow my husband's parents' lead

Myhusband - latechild , at the moment his parents are already pensioners. They live in a three-room apartment, which they once inherited from the former state.

We first rented an apartment, then decided to move in with them to save up little by little.money for your home. I told my husband that there was his room there, and he had the legal and moral right to live there.

My mother-in-law was very surprised that I was eager to live with them. Before this, my fathers-in-law naively thought that they had dumped their beloved son on my caring shoulders. During this time they even managed to make a storage room out of my husband’s room, cluttering it with various old items. It was so convenient for them. To avoid throwing away all this Soviet stuff, my mother-in-law offered us to live in another room, which is smaller and without a balcony. We didn't agree.

Now we live together with my husband’s parents, butrelations are strained. We are buyinggroceries , household chemicals, we clean the entire apartment. We did a small redevelopment, which we spent on out of our own pocket. But his elders are still unhappy. They don’t want to change anything; they are satisfied with the usual swamp.

The husband's father test-antibiotic.com after a stroke, but walks independently, takes care of himself too. But my mother-in-law once said that if we have a child, we will need to look for housing. The father should not worry, and the child will cry. A strange statement, i.e. the grandson they talked so much about earlier is not welcome here in advance? Or is a grandson needed in theory, but in practice the potential grandfather “shouldn’t worry”?

Yesterday my mother-in-law said that her friends rent out one room to two students and therefore these happy friends have no problems with money. They buy themselves whatever they want and deny themselves nothing. Of course, they don’t refuse, because... Before that, we bought a separate apartment for our daughter.

We got the hint, but we have nowhere to go. And there’s no need - this is not a one-room apartment! The husband has the right to part of the living space. And if this does not suit someone, you can buy a tolerable house in a remote village and live there for your own pleasure and “not worry.”

I can’t understand such selfish parents. After all, this is their only son. What were they thinking when they gave birth to him and did not provide him with housing? After all, it is test-antibiotic.com he, not me, should bring his wife to his apartment. I don’t demand mansions in the center of the capital; a one-room apartment in our regional center would be enough, but even that doesn’t exist.

I told my husband that if we move, they will never see our grandchildren. But from their reaction I realized that they didn’t need them. Just like my son. The main thing is your own comfort and “not to worry.” But why should their comfort be more important to me than my own? What do I owe them?