I realized that my husband will never be different

My husband is used to always doing everything in his own way, he never takes into account my opinion, he is constantly rude. He speaks only in raised tones, to the fact that it hurts and hurts me and does not pay attention. She endured everything for the sake of the child. But when he also began to be rude and educate him, I decided and offered to live separately for some time in order to understand if we could continue to live together. At first he said it was nonsense, but when I threatened to divorce, he agreed and moved in with his parents.

I calmed down a little after his departure and realized that I was better off without him, calmer and I didn’t miss him at all. After some time, I had an affair with a colleague Andrey, and he already offered me to be together, but then suddenly he began to constantly callhusband and say that he has changed, that he realized his mistake, and is going to return. But I don't want that, and I told him directly about it. He began to ask me to think more, saying that the child should have a father and that I should think more.

I didn’t know who I should choose, deep down I didn’t believe that my husband had changed, I knew him too well, but I was afraid that suddenly nothing would work out with Andrey, because he was married for me ready to leave the family. Alsomother constantly said that it was better for a child to have a father than none, and that the husband, feeling a threat to marriage, realized his mistake.

While I was thinking, I noticed that my husband began to follow me, then he calls his son and asks who visits us. I called and told him everything, to which, just as before, he began to be rude and insult me, and I realized that he had not changed and would never change. So he, without knowing it, resolved my doubts, and I filed fordivorce .