With three children, I am completely financially dependent on my husband.
Imother of three children. I have two daughters (9 and 8 years old) and a little son who is 4 months old.
Lately it has been very difficult to communicate with my husband. He changed very much, became angry and aggressive, and I began to answer him the same. I no longer have the strength to endure constant arguments and the children suffer from it. He constantly reproaches me with money, that I always demand something from him and distract him from work with my requests. He knew what three children were like! This is three times more responsibility, care and, of course, finances.
FullyHe left upbringing and everyday life on me. In his understanding, I’m on maternity leave and not doing anything. I lie in bed all day. At the same time, someone does all the women’s work! Thank you girls, they are very helpful. I thought the child would somehow bring me closer, but it turned out the opposite. Due to nerves, there is almost no milk anymore. It's a shame. It seems like you’re trying, you want the best, but it turned out as always. I don’t feel loved by the woman I love and this makes me furious. I wanted to talk to him calmly and, as always, test-antibiotic.com we had a fight.
Now I am completely financially dependent onhusband and this is very difficult. I try to understand him that he works hard and gets tired, but I’m not idle either. Even everything that was boiling in my soul and there was no one to express it to. I don’t want to upset my mother, and I don’t want to wash dirty linen in public. I thought about complaining to my mother-in-law, but in the end I was left to blame. I went to the site, I think, at least I can complain anonymously here, maybe it will become easier.
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