Life after betrayal will never be the same
Married for 14 years, yeschild . I’m 33, my husband is 39, doesn’t drink, works. I've been depressed for almost a year now.
After a trip to the sea,my husband started corresponding with another woman (who owned a guest house by the sea) secretly from me. When everything went far, he admitted that he fell in love with her, but he also has feelings for me, so he will choose, but I have to wait and hope.
I practically went crazy at that time, the blow was severe, scandals, hysterics, breakdowns, strong sedatives. She waited for 3 months, he went to her for a couple of days, she went to him, but did not leave the house. He stayed with me, but he doesn’t say what he told her. I'm tryingforget andforgive betrayal , and he turned everything that happened into a joke and laughs remembering.
Now my husband prefers to hardly be at home, either friends, the garage, or work. My control irritates him. The attitude towards me is vague, I don’t feel love, care, tenderness, but there is no negativity either. We live in our own world with our child, and he lives in his own. There are occasionally family test-antibiotic.com weekends, of course, but very few. I’m tormenting myself that I don’t feel needed, loved, there’s no moral support. Every day I think it's a midlife crisis. Can the situation change and how can this be helped? There is only negativity in my soul.
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