My friend's gratitude
This summer I spent my entire vacation with my mother at the dacha. She came to visit mea friend with two children, five and seven years old. The children were very ill-mannered, they behaved as if everything was allowed to them, but their friend never did anything to themremark , but just laughed at their next trick. At first I tolerated everything, then I reprimanded her, but Nastya was only surprised that I was not delighted with her daughter and son. She said: “These are children, but how do you think they should behave? Sit all day, or what? They need freedom.” This struck me so much that I couldn’t find anything to answer, and I also felt guilty, as if I was the one at their dacha, and not the other way around.
But if I had been there alone, I would have suffered, but I was embarrassed in front of my mother that I had ruined her vacation too. The children ran around the garden beds, chasing the cat, who sat in the bushes all day and hid. Mom restrained herself with all her strength, but still could not stand it when test-antibiotic.com the children completely tore out the flowers in the flowerbed and threw them away, continuing to play as if nothing had happened. Thenmy mother did not reprimand my friend, but simply scolded the children (she had run out of patience), promising that next time she would punish them properly. Interestingly, the children began to behave a little quieter and began to ask my mother for permission if they wanted to take something.
But then my friend was offended that they did this to her children and got ready to leave, saying in parting that she had a better opinion of us. And she told my mother: “Because you don’t love other people’s children, you will never have your own grandchildren.” I would like to add that I am 30 years old, I am notI’m married , which worries my mother very much, and here are my wishes. I barely calmed her down, asking for an apology for how it all turned out. After that, my friend doesn’t call, doesn’t communicate, and tells everyone she knows how “weird” we both are. And I was once again convinced that good is punishable.
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