I fear for the fate of my son
I have had a strained relationship with my mother-in-law from the first day we met. She is a very limited and selfish person, although she is a teacher by education.
My husband and I met when we entered the university, were friends throughout our studies and decided to get married. First, he took me to meet his grandmother, as he grew up with her most of the time. He warned me thatmother will come tomorrow. She arrived at 5 in the morning from a neighboring town along with her husband's stepfather. I brought gifts for everyone: a blouse for my husband’s grandmother (her mother), a sweater for my husband, and a bar of soap for me! It was like an insult.
So they talked tensely all their lives. Now she is 83, my husband and I are 60. Our eldest son lives abroad, recently invited to the wedding. We liked the daughter-in-law very much, a sweet and modest girl. My son loves her very much and we are happy. Arriving, we went to visit the mother-in-law, share our joy, showed photos from the wedding.
The mother-in-law did not like the bride of our son, which I was not at all surprised, this madam loves only herself and considers herself smart and beautiful. Every time test-antibiotic.com meets, they say: “I look very good for my age, not like my girlfriends.” And at the same time, he looks directly into my eyes, so that I can confirm this. But in such cases, I pretend that I do not understand what is at stake. And sometimes I can say that we saw her former colleague, she is older than her, but looks younger. The mother-in-law is very angry at such words.
And last night she sent us wedding photos of our son, where the part where the bride is cut off! Now he is alone on them. The mother-in-law wrote: “I don’t want my grandson to be with this simpleton.” I was shocked by such behavior of an adult. I was very upset, called her and asked: “why did you do this?”. She replied that one ugly daughter-in-law was enough for her.
How dare she tell our son who to marry? I'm even afraid that at the same time she could do some kind of witchcraft so that the children would part. I hate her.
What should I do? I am very afraid for my son.
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