How to convince my husband that I love only him?
My husband and I lived together for 7 years. We lived, I won’t say that peacefully, we often quarreled. Appeared three years agochild , and then everything began to improve. And lately everything has been great.
But in spite of all this, we always loved each other. But apparently not so much. Not being married yet, I cheated on him. All these years it tormented me, did not let me live. Tears, despair, finally confessed. Now for a year we have been trying to save the family, but it is not getting better.
We love each other madly. It’s unbearable together, and if we break up, we probably won’t survive. I can't see life without him, and he can't live without me. My husband says that without me it will be worse for me as well. But it's been like this for a year now and nothing has changed. How to save a family? Is it real at all?
That evening I met an old friend. In the evening they crossed, kisses, hugs. I have always been a good girl, there was only one man in my life. And then he began to persuade me to have sex. I got out as best I could, and then gave up. He pressured test-antibiotic.com to try on the side just once in a lifetime.
I didn’t like sex with him, I don’t understand how I went about it. The husband feels humiliated, weakened, constant breakdowns. What to do? Doesn't believe a single word I say. He thinks that I fell in love, that's why it all happened.
But no. I then wanted to have fun with another guy without sex. We didn't have a very good relationship back then.My husband thinks I've found a replacement for him. But it's not.
How to solve this problem?
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