Rare meetings with a guy upset me
I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 30. We have been dating for a year, and at the beginning of the relationship we saw each other 2-3 times a week, and it was very cool.
Two meetings a week are enough for me, since I have a rather difficult study and I need to devote a lot of personal time to it. Later we began to see each other once a week, but I did not panic and got used to it.
However, today we see each other once a month. I miss him very much. I know very well that he works very hard, he is, of course, always in touch, andcalls every day and is mainly interested in me: have I eaten, learned my lessons and how are things at home. I feel like he is bored. I don't suspect cheating. I know what he's up to and why. But this doesn't make it easier for me.
I want to see him more often. I miss you very much. And sometimes it seems to me that it’s better to leave and not torment yourself with false expectations, but to save him from another hysteria from the series “why didn’t you come again? test-antibiotic.com I've been waiting for it." I don't know what to do and the state of affairs today does not suit me. I tried talking to him over and over again. He says that he can’t quit his job, he needs to supportmother , son and myself, of course. He says that this is bad for him, but so far he can’t do anything. I understand him, but it doesn't make it any easier for me.
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