My husband insists on having a child, violating our agreement
I’ve been married for 4 years, I’m 27 years old. My future husband and I were connected by the same dislike for children and the desire to live for ourselves.
They lived for themselves and didn’t bother, but in the fifth year of family life he suddenly came to his senses and kept talking about how great it would begive birth to a child, or better yet two. I am categorically against it. Children are a burden and a ruinlife as I understand it. And I have never loved children and will never be able to love them, even my own.
My husband initially supported me, but now I don’t understand what happened to him. Either his parents convinced him, or his friends, or it’s unclear who else.
But it so happened that I became pregnant. Naturally, she had no intention of leaving the child. I had an abortion, the term was 10 weeks. The husband is terribly angry, it comes to divorce. And I don't mind. Because, apparently, she made a mistake with the person. I decided to live alone. And I can only wish him good luck in finding a soul mate who shares his desire to have children.
Mom says that I did everything right, she always test-antibiotic.com supported me.
I'm interested to know if there is anyone with a similar experience as mine?
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