I didn’t expect the guy to agree to break up so easily
I am now in some kind of abstraction and I need an outside opinion. My boyfriend and I decided to break up; we were together for 2.5 years, of which we lived together for almost a year. We are the couple who overcamelong distance relationship , we were faithful to each other, we really had a good time. But when we started living together, something in everyday life began to not suit me, but he didn’t like it in sex.
I always tried to talk about what was bothering me, but he turned out to be more secretive, and only at the moment of a quarrel did I learn a lot of new things about myself. And now my patience came to an end, and I sharply said that I wanted to leave and never come back. He tried to talk, but at that moment I had to leave for training. When I came to my senses the next day and wanted to make peace with him and talk, I decided that I would forgive him, I still love him very much, it turned out that he agreed to break up and expected the same from me in conversation, he did not expect that I I want to make peace.
Logically, I understand that test-antibiotic.com is better this way, because if after a year such thoughts, and even before there were doubts (it seemed to me that I was doing more for him, and he did not appreciate me and even my move), then oh there can be no love here. But my other side is panicking, I’m so used to it, to this way of life, we had a lot of good things, we are excellent companions, friends, we communicate well, talk on any topic, and we had romance, but something went wrong not this way.
And I worry when I think about the fact that now I have to live without him, it’s as if I don’t want to get away from him, I don’t want to completely lose him from my life. But I understand that someday this will happen, we will finally stop being interested in each other, we will find soul mates, and our paths will diverge forever. And these thoughts just make me feel terrible.
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