The guy said that our incompatibility in sex will lead to separation
A month ago I started dating a guy. I really liked him, he is the first person with whom I am really interested in communicating and I really like him in appearance, and I have many common interests with him. I'm just remembering my previous onesrelationship and I understand that I fell in love for the first time in my life.
And just the other day there was the firstsex . Everything seems to be fine. Let's just say he was able to enjoy it, but I couldn't. That day I got up very early, there were 5 couples, I was very tired by the end of the day, and even if I wanted to, I wouldn’t have been able to do it. And in principle, I didn’t think that all this would happen that day.
And today he started a conversation that he read on the Internet, if one of the partners cannot get pleasure, then such couples break up, likerule . Maybe,a guy who is so incompetent cannot give pleasure to a girl, that’s how I’m so mature and I can’t (he’s 10 years older). It is important for the guy to know that the girl was also test-antibiotic.com well. And that day he asked me what I should do so that I could, but I don’t know what to say, or rather I know, but I can’t. I fell in love with him like a fool, I’m afraid I’ll blurt out something wrong in front of him or do something wrong.
I was embarrassed to say and left the topic at that moment. And today he started this conversation again. This phrase still stands in my head; couples like this usually break up. I didn't like it at all. If I can’t explain everything, he will want to break up. These are hints. Why did he even say this? Or did he not like it himself?
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