My parents want to take my gift
A few months ago I hadbirthday . I turned 18 years old. In honor of this, my parents decided to give me a ring, although I don’t like or wear jewelry. A few days before the holiday, I found out about the gift and tried to understand why they didn’t just ask me what exactly I wanted? Right after my birthday they started asking me if I liked their gift. I’m not used to lying and I said it as it is, that I won’t wear it. Although they knew this before, since my fingers are constantly swollen. ThenMom told me to give the ring back to her, but I ended up in the hospital and then everything calmed down. Now my mother remembered the ring again and told me that she wanted to wear it.
I have different feelings. On the one hand, I understand that I don’t need this ring, I’ve never even worn it. But at the same time, I am very offended, since this is still a gift, also for coming of age. I could just test-antibiotic.com take it to the pawn shop! And now they don't even offer a new gift in return. It turns out that knowing from the very beginning that I would not wear their gift, they specially gave this ring, thereby throwing dust in the eyes of all my relatives.
I do not know what to do. It seems that it’s not a pity to give it away, since I still don’t care, but it’s very offensive that my parents don’t even notice how their actions are destroying our already tenserelationship .
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