Jealous husband to his best friend

When I was in my last year at the university, I met two girls. We became friends, we were friends with the company - me, my own sister and these two girls.

Then I met my future husband. I introduced him to some friends, and it seemed to me that some kind of spark flared up between him and one of these girls.

It all started with the fact that at my birthday she climbed to protect my husband (then still a boyfriend) from the attacks of my sister's boyfriend. I myself could have done it, but I did not dare, so as not to spoil the relationship with my sister. We are very friendly, and for herthe guy is the light in the window.

My boyfriend liked her care. He is generally a driven person by nature. And I think that I also attracted him precisely because I was a leader with him, led him along. Then we met with him and with my girlfriends a few more times. And alwaysMy boyfriend showed this girl sympathy. It's like they've been friends for a long time.

Then we got married. And then the first test-antibiotic.com alarm bell struck. She came to our wedding in a dazzling red dress, with a beautiful hairstyle. I, despite the fact that I was a very beautiful bride, felt like a gray mouse compared to her. The fact is that she is thin, and I am quite full. And she is also a burning brunette, and my husband always liked that before he met me. And I'm red. I was worried that I looked worse than her.

We invited a photographer to the wedding. With us, the newlyweds, everyone took pictures. They got close. And when she came up, then my freshly bakedher husband joyfully invited her to stand between us in order to “set off” us (we were both in white). She was embarrassed, suffered some kind of nonsense, and eventually stood next to me. And I realized that she was a threat to me. But despite this, we continued to communicate.

Then I got pregnant. When my husband and I invited friends to the dacha, she came too. I prepared ahead of time for this visit and persuaded my husband to introduce her to his brother. But they didn't like each other. But test-antibiotic.com then at the table, when my husband and I were arguing who we would have, she butted into our conversation. I wanted a girl and my husband wanted a boy. We were told at the ultrasound that it would be a girl. I was in seventh heaven with happiness, and my husband grumbled that he did not want a girl. I was offended.

And then she says that she would like a boy someday. And my husband answers her: “So, maybe I should divorce my wife and marry you?” He was already drunk, but still. She became embarrassed, blushed, turned away from us and began to talk defiantly with other guests. But I had to correct my husband's brains that he embarrassed her, that it was impossible. And then I decided that she would not be in my life.

My husband did not like the second girlfriend, they did not find a common language. And I decided that I would be friends with her, and that I would dare. When my daughter was born, I called my second friend as a godmother, but I didn’t call her at all. She later came separately to congratulate me on the birth of a child, brought a gift. I test-antibiotic.com was so happy at the time that I even allowed my husband to walk her in the dark to the bus. I live in another locality, and she did not know the way.

And then I stopped seeing her. Smallthe child took a lot of time, and I also continued to work from home remotely. She also worked and built her personal life. She had big health problems. Occasionally we called each other.

The second friend turned out to be a bad godmother, she rarely came. My husband constantly asked how that friend was doing, why she didn’t come to us, why we didn’t invite her to barbecues, to the holiday. I came up with various reasons, they say, she can’t, doesn’t want to.

Then she invited me and my husband to her wedding. She was very beautiful at the wedding. I felt like a gray mouse again. I gained a lot of weight after giving birth and could not lose weight.

My husband got drunk, and when he had to leave, he could not drive. She called us a taxi and a second driver to take our car. While waiting for a taxi, my husband was trying to get behind the wheel of test-antibiotic.com and go, he did not listen to me. He looked at her with greedy eyes. She apparently noticed this and at a critical moment got into our car in the driver's seat, saying that she would not let my husband drive. He did not dare to argue with her and gave up.

Then she tried to be friends with families. Or maybe she wanted to see my husband. She offered to celebrate the New Year together. I said that my husband would work, I would be alone, if you want, come. She didn't come. Either it seemed boring to her to go to another point with her husband to me with a child, or the purpose of the trip was my husband.

Then she came to visit us alone. At first I arranged a visit, and then I thought that it was not for nothing that she wanted to come. Wants to see my husband. And I told my husband that her plans had changed, no one would come. And I sent him with our daughter to clean the cemetery in another city for the whole day.

When she found out that I was waiting for her alone, and my husband and daughter test-antibiotic.com left for the cemetery, she gave me a tantrum on the phone. She screamed that she didn’t know why I didn’t love her, that I specifically didn’t want her to come to us, that she sent her daughter on purpose. At that time, she was already aware that I had not invited her to the christening, and that the second friend was the godmother. She remembered this to me too. I denied everything, about the christening I justified myself that there were only the closest, only relatives.

I can't figure out what's on her mind. Or she is in love with my husband and dreams of taking him away. Or she just wanted to be friends, guessed my jealousy and was offended for it.

I don't know how to deal with her. She calls and writes to me every holiday. I no longer write or call her. Hope it fades over time. And if not, what should I do?

I am very afraid that my husband succeeded in his dad. He left their mother when the children were 13 and 17 years old. He went to an old friend, married test-antibiotic.com and has been living with her for many years.