My son changed a lot after meeting a girl

I have the same onesrelationship with his son, as in this story. Just nowmy son doused me with another portion of cold. He's been doing this continuously for the last year. I just can't come to terms with this.

We were friends, colleagues. I helped him a lot in life. Yes, the umbilical cord was long and strong. But then he met a girl. She lives in Kyiv. They began to live there together. He rents an apartment. He comes home once a month for a few days. But I hardly see him. All things. And I always wait and miss you.

He began to demand that I sell the apartment and buy two small ones - for myself and for him. But he said that he would not live here, he would rent it out to film in Kyiv. He always doesn’t have enough money, he always asks for a loan and howas a rule , does not give. His girlfriend does not work, but loves to travel abroad. I'm afraid that he will sell his apartment and buy there.

Until October last year, my girlfriend and I were on excellent terms. She came, called test-antibiotic.com with complaints about him, I bought her gifts. But by chance, in a cafe, I was talking to my friend and talked about my concerns about the apartment, and said unflattering words about this girl. It turned out that I pressed something on the phone, and thisthe girl heard the entire conversation.

Horror. She called me immediately. I was shocked. I immediately wrote her a letter askingforgive , apologised. She replied that she would no longer communicate with me, that I should be grateful to her, that she lives with my son, that, so be it, she would not turn him against me, and that for methe apartment is too important.

The son initially reacted to this situation with humor. It was a relief. But he arrived a week later as a different person. I lost him. We still communicate only about money. I tried to return to that situation. He said: “What, don’t you feel guilty anymore?” I tried several times to make peace with her, wrote to her. But she doesn't answer.

It's hard. My son said that I had no right to talk to my friend test-antibiotic.com about his girlfriend. But I’m an adult, I can talk to anyone and about anything. These were my worries and thoughts. I would never tell her myself. She overheard. I could just listen and reel it in, rather than admit that I heard it. Although this is difficult and would not change things. The result is that I lose my son and suffer a lot. What advice would you give me?