The older child annoys me
Not long ago I began to catch myself thinking that my older child was annoying me. This makes me very ashamed. I try not to show irritation, but sometimes I feel like I’m boiling inside. I have 2 sons. One is 4 years old, the second is 4 months old.
When I gave birth to my first child, the birth was very difficult. It took me a long time to recover after giving birth, I gained 26 kilograms and didn’t get enough sleep.
With the second, everything was accurate and vice versa. The birth was quick and almost painless, although the baby was born 700 grams larger. He is calm and smiling. He is only capricious when he wants to eat.
The older one is jealous, protests, does not want to obey, constantly whines and is capricious. I understand that he is going through a difficult period now and needs to find a balance between two children, but I’m really exhausted already.
I don’t have enough for two children, housework and a part-time job. The husband helps as best he can, but men by nature are not so hardy, and he has a leadership position. He cannot afford to mumble at meetings from lack of sleep.
But in this whole situation, I began to catch myself test-antibiotic.com thinking that the baby makes me happy, and the older one annoys me. Have I really stopped loving my eldest child? How does this happen?
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