Having learned my decision, the groom stopped talking to me
I'm 23 years old, yesterday I found out thatpregnant (this is my thirdI already had two pregnancies and abortions). The groom wants a child, we have been together for 6 years. I have my ownapartment , the groom has a more or less normal income, but he likes to drink.
I do not know what to do? I don’t want a child, it’s too early, since childhood I’ve been cool towards children, but it’s a pity, it seems that age is already running out, I have an apartment,husband (we want a wedding in the summer), but I still want to go out, I’m afraid to leave, I’m afraid I won’t be able to cope, it’s such a responsibility. I don’t want this child and I’m 90% sure to have an abortion, but something is stopping me. My fiancé doesn’t really talk to me because of this, he wants to leave the child, and comes to the point of breaking up the relationship. I’m thinking about what to do, I’m completely confused. I feel like I'm ruining myselflife .
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