Хочу быстрее переехать от таких родителей
Отец почти каждый день пьет. Каждодневные оскорбления, споры и ссоры с матерью, доводят меня до нервного срыва. Ругаются и кричат они, а страдает моя нервная система.
Мать говорит, что ей надоело, и она уже не может это терпеть, что это уже предел, а отец каждый раз угрожает, что навсегда уедет из страны и больше не вернется. Я не ребенок мне 20 лет и я в какой-то мере пытаюсь понять причины их ссор. Отец хочет видеть покладистую жену, которая ему все будет делать, а мать немного с характером.
Ссоры длятся годы с моего раннего детства. Отец пьет и начинает свои руганья, сейчас еще нормально, а в моем детстве валялся на улицах, кричал и сквернословил так, что весь район слышал, бил мать и кричал на нее. Сейчас только ругается, кричит и постоянные пьяные неадекватные выходки.
Мне надоело уже все это. Не знаю, что делать и как их успокоить. Переехать получится не скоро, хотя пытаюсь. Может кто-то видит какой-то другой выход, а я его не вижу?
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