I'm ashamed that I never learned to understand people
My real life story is not naive, it reminds me more that I never learned to understand people. It will soon be 3 years since I met a young man. He’s from Russia, I’m not, I’ve lived abroad for many years, but I’m a Siberian, just like him. Initially, everything was fine, simple and went on its own, there were no complaints or anything related to it, but then he suddenly told me everything about himself. I was taken aback, but after reading his story, I didn’t push him away, I wasn’t scared, I just continued to communicate.
We met, I arrived. He probably expected from me that I would be his on a platter.I will provide life , but I had nothing to provide him, except that I am divorced andsingle mother . Of course, I couldn’t even think that he would be offended by this, expecting from me some similar stormy story like his. Insults began, accusations of deceit, of treason, I was returning from Russia and the first thing I read in the messages was that I was a prostitute and frivolous. Afterwards there were test-antibiotic.com apologies, tears, and he explained all this by saying that he had a headache after everything he had experienced. I understood and forgave.
MyThe fault is that she allowed him to humiliate herself and nothing changed over the years. We decided to get married, I started preparing a challenge for him, butWe should have contracted the marriage initially in Russia. I helped him as much as I could, economically, when I needed it, I took off and flew, the 14 hours of flight did not stop me. In the end, I was left to blame, he considers me a liar and a cheater. Even on social media. networks, he accused me of going out and cheating, although I don’t have them, except on my phone, for quick communication with my family.
It’s stupid, of course, to write about this, but I can’t understand how you can treat people like this, because it’s not fair, he’s looking for understanding, but he doesn’t trust anyone. His problem was a very terrible thing, drugs. I didn't turn my back on him because everyone deserves a second chance. What is my fault? I have always believed that if a person realizes his mistakes, test-antibiotic.com then this is very good, the desire to live and strive for the goal gives us the strength to live. I thought I had found someone with whom I would share my life, giving tenderness andhelp in everything, he became a close person to me. But I deceived myself.
I am very ashamed that I never learned to understand people.
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