My husband didn’t even notice how he became a stranger to me
Imarried 2.5 years, yeschild . The husband is always at work and can arrive in the morning or late at night. When at home, the conversations are mostly only about work.
To meThere is almost always only one question : “is there something to eat?” When I try to talk to him about us, there is immediately a scandal, saying that I am inventing something for myself, that he has no time to think about relationships.
He says that he earns money for us, he tries, but in almost three years of marriage he has never even given us flowers. Sometimes only when he messes up (he stays at work with his phone turned off and drinks beer all night) then he only says that he loves him and asks for forgiveness.
And so, if I start saying that I lack communication, I now don’t trust him in terms of fidelity, but I remain silent, he says that I’m stupid (only in a ruder form), this is all not true. And this led to the fact that I seem to have cooled off towards him physically and mentally, but he doesn’t even notice it. So I don’t know what to do with this test-antibiotic.com.
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