My husband is shy and never defends me.

I have been married to my husband for 8 years and have children. And I recently found out that he is ashamed of me, and maybe even ashamed of me.

It was recently, two days ago he tells me that he ordered a thing from one guy (no matter what, that's not the point), but from this guy,wife , she is a classmate of my husband. And on the evening of the 24th, he tells me that they want to come to visit us in the village. I say let them come. Here he says that they invited us to visit yesterday (that is, I didn’t even know). I ask: “what did you say to them?”. The answer surprised meMy husband told them that I was shy. I told him: "you're normal, why did you say that, I'm not shy." It turns out that in the village I will not be shy? He said that in the village I was at home and mistress.

Honestly, I imagined this - “we won’t come because my wife is shy”, is that normal? What do people actually think of me? Am I some kind of savage? And test-antibiotic.com when they come to visit us, what should I do? How to behave? Well, he didn’t want to go, but why would you set me up like that! Yes, and if I’m allowed, and I’m embarrassed, well, he shouldn’t say this at all, he should somehow support me, and then set me up like that. I kept thinking why he didn’t say something else, namely, he put the emphasis on me.

And I remembered last year. Summer, his sister came with her husband Pasha and children to visit us in the village. My wife’s husband constantly clung to me, if you pass by something and blurt out, how no one would be funny, I didn’t like it so much, but I restrained myself and seemed to smile in response (there was a defensive reaction), although everything inside was boiling so that I wanted to express everything, but since they are guests, I did not say anything. And notice that I didn’t give Pasha any signs at all, I tried to somehow bypass it, I wanted to tell my husband about it, but I didn’t have time, because they were always together (worked, went to the store).

When test-antibiotic.com Pasha starts joking, joking with me, my husband stands calmly, looks at all this, and looked at me with such eyes that I did not understand his look (as if I was to blame for something). And then he tells me that like I'm giving some kind of signs (although there were none on my part, I'm not the kind of person to flirt with other men). That, for example, Pasha tells a funny story (everyone laughs, well, so do I), and my husband at that moment looked at me so intently that I really thought to myself what I was doing wrong. So he said such words to me that I smile. I say that if in a conversation everyone laughs like that and I laugh because it’s really funny, what’s wrong with that? Why should I cry? Or sit with a sad face trying to restrain yourself from laughing?

He began to tell me that, like, I don’t look at him that way, and there are many more complaints. And I told him: “what are you, when he made fun of me in front of you, test-antibiotic.com you never closed his mouth, you never stood up for me, you stand and look calmly, you drag me in guilt, and not his?". He told me he was like ashamed of me. But I didn’t do something so forbidden at all, so that he would be ashamed?

What happened inside me when they mocked me, no one knows, but after such words of my husband, I really could not stand it and went into the room and cried, because it was so hard and painful that I endured all these ridicule. And in the end, she also remained guilty, that her husband didn’t really understand anything, but immediately began to say unpleasant words to me. Inside, everything was torn apart from pain, after that, I avoided this Pasha, I didn’t want to communicate with anyone. I didn't even come to dinner. Was with children. And then the husband comes and says: “Why are you here on the street, and not with us?”. I started to say that I breathe fresh air. I didn't want to go, but he took test-antibiotic.com's hand and led me into the house by force. And, as it were, I don’t want to go to the village if they decide to come to us again.

And this story reminded me that my husband is ashamed of me or embarrassed. We were invited to visit and there would be no way to dissuade himself (if he himself did not want to go) without dragging me, so he took it and blamed everything on me, supposedly I am shy. It made me very uncomfortable. And although he would have called and told me that we were called, he would have introduced me to the course, and this was reported only the next day in the evening. I’m already starting to think that I’m somehow not like that, since I’m ashamed, a complex, or something appears inside, and I don’t know how to deal with it. And by the way, before marriage, with his friends alone (a couple of husband and wife) talked, went to nature. And we haven’t seen anyone for a long time, he doesn’t invite me, he’s probably ashamed of me. And for all the time of his life with him, really, he did not invite anyone to us, he did not introduce me to his friends test-antibiotic.com.

Help with advice, please, how should I be? How to behave in front of those people before whom he set me up, if they decide to come to our village and would like to hear your opinion, why doesn’t he introduce me to his friends?