Husband does not pay attention to family and child
Our child is four years old. From the birth of my child, I took upon myself all the responsibilities for caring for him. It seemed right to me, I didn’t work,The husband was the main breadwinner in the family. I wanted him to rest when he came home.
Whenmy daughter was small, an infant, I bathed her myself, walked with her, I didn’t want him to get tired. That is, it’s as if they always brought out a ready-made child in lace, let’s say. Almost a couple of times a month, he quietly went with his friends to some kind of event, be it five-day football trips or a hobby - diving for five days. Since I didn’t have a nanny, I could very rarely go somewhere, it’s corny, but in all that time I remember three timesI went for coffee with a friend, and that’s it for nowmy mother came for a couple of hours.
My daughter was growing up, I began to get tired, because the child is growing and does not understand that mother needs to cook and iron, and not play all day. I began to notice that if I askhusband to be with the child, test-antibiotic.com he does this with great reluctance. He agrees, but for a very short time, that is, if there is an opportunity to meet with friends and be with us at home, then he chooses friends. So in everything.
I feel very sad, sometimes I feel like a single mother. Most importantly, if others ask him to help, he immediately rushes in and can spend a lot of time onhelp them. Why is that? I try very hard to be a reliable support for him, to look good, to devote time to him, to communicate, to talk to him. But everything is useless.
Once again I tell him: “Darling, maybe you can watch football at home, especially since the child is sleeping at this time, I’ll keep you company. I miss you so much (he comes late). To which there is simply zero reaction.
The question is how to live? Why doesn't he want to be home? Why are friends and acquaintances more important than time spent with family? I’m so tired of asking, it’s stupid to even call it a request, I’m tired of dragging the whole house and family along. Perhaps this is all I need?
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