My boyfriend's first marriage haunts me
My boyfriend and I live together. Before me he hadmarriage and now his daughter is 2 years old. His firstthe wife does not allow either him or his parents to see the child and has cut off all ties with them. Only photos on social networks.
Of course, he doesn’t talk about this to me or his parents in front of me, and I don’t know the whole truth. He doesn’t show that he’s worried, but maybe he doesn’t care. He tries not to talk about his past in front of me.
Now our planschild , but due to the fact that he already has one from his first marriage, I can’t cope with the thoughts in my head. It seems to me that behind my back he and his parents are talking about. They don’t initiate me into this, they hide everything from me. If he goes to his city to visit his parents, then it seems to me that he goes to his child and his first wife.
I know that the child is not to blame for this situation, but his first marriage haunts me. I feel like test-antibiotic.com I’m superfluous. They hide everything from me, he doesn’t show his feelings, maybe he really is bored? And even if I find out that he saw the child, then what should I do? I try not to think, but still the thoughts haunt me.
How should I feel about this situation? What should I do right?
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