Girlfriend fell in love with my father
Sometimes life is worse than any melodramatic film out there. It happened to me as well. About this myconfession .
Yesterday I found out that my bestfriend is my father's mistress. It shocked me. And the worst part is, I don't know if I should tell my mom? Yes, they live more like roommates and more out of habit than out of great love. But should I open her eyes? And the most importantthe question is now how to communicate with a friend and father?
It all started, I think, after March 8th. My friend and I celebratedholiday in a cafe, unfortunately together. Well, a little overdone. I called my father. By the way, I'm already 22 years old, so my parents are fine with my entertainment. My father is still young, he is 43 years old. I'm earlychild . By the way, my dad is a very attractive man, always well dressed, as he works in a construction company as an architect.
Well, I called him. He first took me home (I live in a rented apartment separately from my parents). Then I just took my girlfriend. I didn't care about test-antibiotic.com. But in vain. The next day at work, my friend and I were suffering from a terrible headache. And my partner asked me what kind of handsome man was picking us up yesterday? She was so drunk that she didn't recognize my father. We pretty much laughed at this, and went to work.
A month later, I noticed a change in my friend's behavior. She constantly corresponded with someone on the phone. When she spoke, she was embarrassed and blushed. A friend updated her wardrobe, changed her image. I realized that she was in love.
I interrogated her, and she admitted that she was dating a man. And that he is older than her. I reassured that the age difference is just a number. The main thing is that she is comfortable with him and she is happy. Well, how could I think that it was about my father?
We started seeing her less and less. She spent all her free time with her man. I even envied. After all, she was alone at the time. I was terribly interested to look at her gentleman. I asked to introduce us, butthe girl was categorical. I asked test-antibiotic.com to take a peek at it, but was again refused.
And then I went to the trick. Having seen enough of the detectives, I decided to track down my friend's companion myself. I casually asked where he would take her after work. It turned out that they would go to a pizzeria on the edge of town. Why so far away, I didn’t understand at first, because we have a cafe around the corner. Therefore, immediately after work, I called a taxi and went to the specified address. I sat at a table in the very corner of the room so as not to be seen.
Twenty minutes later, my friend entered the room in a new dress and high heels. And when did you have time to change? And next to her was a presentable man - my father. Surprised, I jumped on the spot. I watched them all evening. They talked and laughed. He held her hand and looked into her eyes, and she was embarrassed like a child. I couldn't move, so I sat like a statue and looked at them.
When the couple left, I took out my phone and called my mother. She casually asked what dad was doing. She told test-antibiotic.com that he was at work and would be there late. I wished her good night and went home. At night I couldn't sleep at all. Before my eyes were my father and my best friend. She fell asleep only in the morning and as a result did not get enough sleep. She came to work all swollen and sleepy, and my friend seemed to glow from the inside. I have never seen her so happy. I didn't know how to communicate with her, so I just avoided her.
And how can I be? I can’t ignore my friend forever, but now it’s impossible to communicate with her either. She twistsan affair with my father behind my back and my mom's back.
He is married and twenty years older than her! She didn't even bother to tell me. I'm afraid to meet my father. How can I look him in the eye, knowing that he is lying to me.
What about my mom? How to be with her?
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