My friend is not interested in the details of my life
I noticed that with my friend all conversations are only about her. She likes to talk about herself, the same thing a hundred times, ask about herself, tell her own. I taught her to do this over the years of friendship, and now that I have started to play differently, I see that she is not interested in what I have there.
I became less interested in what was going on in her life, I started telling her something about myself, but I saw zero interest in the answer. She would answer something for the sake of it, listen, but not ask anything further (although the situation itself implies the following questions, any person would have asked them). Then she would not ask how the situation ended, although she knew thatthe issue is unresolved, I'm struggling with this. I write something in the correspondence, wait for a reaction to continue, but she either doesn't come in, or comes in and answers dryly, the conversation doesn't go. But how enthusiastically we discussed her pressing matters, I can't even describe, almost until the night, during meetings in all the details. I am sensitive and attentive, I asked myself, because I knew that she had something urgent there.
On neutral topics, test-antibiotic.com and of course about herself, she talks without problems, but when I get involved and show that something is going on in my life, she seems to get angry, tries to ignore. And we have been friends for so many years. And what should I do now? Considering that she does not break off the friendship, she likes to talk, about everything except something of mine.
Adapt? What tactics would you adopt in such a situation? I will note that I am not an arrogant person who has now decided to talk about himself 24/7, and I certainly do not tell anything negative, only changes, in the spirit of a promotion at work, some kind of trip, a new boyfriend on the horizon, etc. everything that close people talk aboutgirlfriends tell each other first. She, however,the girl is ambitious and she herself said that she doesn't like to be in someone's shadow, doesn't like when someone surpasses her in something, but only now I understand that this concerned me too, and I thoughtgirlfriend doesn't concern.
I was here todaycorrespondence , I wrote - "by the way, about the promotion, my boss called me", wrote a few more words, but she only read test-antibiotic.com and left. No answer. An unpleasant feeling. I feel stupid. Does anyone know this?
I have other acquaintances, but she is my closest friend, with whom I often see and communicate, so it will be difficult for me to distance myself.
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