A consequence of stress or mysticism?
I havea friend who buried her mother half a year ago. I must say that my friend and my mother were very close. Mom was sick for a long time and diedgirlfriends in arms. Buried. Remembered. Everything is as it should be. And now, seven months later, parent’s day arrives. A friend went to the cemetery. Further from her words and from the first person.
I came to the cemetery, sat on a bench next to the graves of my relatives, and there were quite a few of them there:father , two younger sisters who died in infancy many years ago, grandparents, and, in fact, a recently deceasedMother . I put sweets and cookies on everyone’s graves, I’m sitting there, treating my acquaintances who came up, and out of the corner of my eye I look at the last grave and can’t figure out whose it is? Where did it come from? Who was buried there, so close to my family? She didn’t even go up to it and didn’t put anything there, but her gaze constantly returns there. So the day passed, I went home. And only in the morning it hit me like an electric shock: this is my mother’s grave!”
That is, she put out sweets and remembered all her relatives except her mother! test-antibiotic.com She didn’t even remember that her mother was buried there! He says that his mother’s funeral was completely erased from his memory. She never once remembered that her mother was buried there. And I never thought about her at all! A young friend - 40 years old. I have never complained about memory and never do. But tell me, what was it? Sitting next to the grave and not approaching it and not remembering that this is the grave of your mother, the dearest person, as the deceased mother undoubtedly was for your friend.
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