I constantly apologize to my husband
Happened to my husband and Iquarrel , I’m also to blame for not acting calmly, but I didn’t insulthusband . Now he walks around offended, I can’t look at it, I came up several times to apologize, hugged him, offered him lunch, dinner, but he just looks at me coldly and rejects everything, pushes me away when I try to hug him, attempts to talk end with the phrase - “It’s all your fault.”
It hurts me, I don’t understand why I should be offended for so long, especially since I’m the first, despite the fact that I was also offended, I still made attempts to make peace, because it’s impossible to live in such tension.
What do i do? My husband doesn’t take a step towards meeting me, but I myself don’t want to beg for his forgiveness, because he was the one who called me names and also pushed me. I apologized as normal and hugged me, but he told me “leave me alone” and pushed me away.
Should I try to apologize again or just not touch him anymore? It’s difficult for me to accumulate resentment, but he may not talk to me for a week. test-antibiotic.com I don't know if I need this? I live like I’m on a powder keg, I don’t know at what point he’ll get offended and stop talking to me.
Please help me with advice.
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