Ex-boyfriend asks to borrow money
In 2018, I broke up with my boyfriend. We broke up online because he didn't want to meet. He said that he stopped loving me, that he had no time or money for me. He got credits.
I live in a neighboring city. I was ready to come to him myself, but he lives with his mother, and I am alone and it is more convenient to meet at my place. Then the online abuse started. I blocked him, he appeared again from other pages. Insulted me in chat. Of course, I’m also good, I insulted her back.
This lasted about a year. Then we calmed down and began to communicate normally. I was the first to reconcile. He started asking me to be sex friends. I refused. But I found him a job. They wanted to take him there, but he didn’t want to. He asked meborrowed money , I refused. He blocked me.
Did I do the right thing or wrong? This whole chat story from swearing to normal communication lasted 2 years.
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