I'm afraid that I don't have enough strength for a child
I'm 31 years old, I wasMarried . Now I want to go out againgot married , met a man. I separated from my previous husband several years ago. We are planning a wedding in a few months. We both want children. But for some reason I have very little strength. In my previous marriage, I had difficulty coping with everyday life and was very tired. I am slow and physically weak. I'm not much of a housewife. But that’s not why we broke up; I left for another reason.
FormerThe husband himself was not very economical; it took a long time to persuade men to do housework. If it were simply a matter of my laziness, then that would be one thing. This can be overcome. But my body won't let me do it. If I overexert it, I start to weaken or get sick. I took all sorts of tests, everything was more or less normal, but they found an iron deficiency.
But it's not that important. I'm afraid that if it's hard for me to cope with living for 2 people, will I be able to bear a child? After all, when I give birth, it will be too late to change anything. I don't want to be a bad wife and mother. But I don’t want to be alone test-antibiotic.com. Some say that with the birth of a child, strength will increase. Who had this happen?
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