I'm afraid I'll be a bad mom
I am 28 years old. IMarried . My husband and I love each other very much. I recently became pregnant and it was unplanned, but unfortunately, when I found out, I was shocked and for some reason was not so happy about this event. And everyone around is very happy, everyone has such emotions.
Today I had an ultrasound and saw the baby on the screen, but I didn’t feel anything. Then, from the thought that I didn’t feel like a mother, I started crying. It seems like I want children, but because I’m not that happy, I cry and it scares me. The fact that this is a big responsibility is scary, what if you are bornbaby , I will experience the same emotions as now.
Or I haven’t fully realized or I don’t want children? I don’t know what the reason is, I don’t even think about abortion, I’m against it. I can't figure out why this happens. I need an advice.
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