Marriage without sex
I have been married to my husband for 5 years, before that we met for 3 years, and lived together for a year. In relations, everything is fine with us, there is mutual understanding, we joke together, for so many years we have become friends with each other. There are 2 daughters - 3 years and a year. In material terms, everything is also in order, we live in a three-room apartment, we recently purchased a car. But there is still one problem - the lack of sex.
When the relationship started, everything was not even very bad, but then the sex life began to decline more and more. Previously, I myself tried to take the initiative, but my husband either had a headache, or was not in the mood, or was tired. When I was pregnant, there was no sex at all,the husband could not do this, knowing that there was a child in his stomach.
I can’t say that I have some kind of big appetite for sex, rather the need is not high - once a week is enough, but after the birth of our second daughter, we have sex once every 3 months. I stopped taking the initiative myself, I just got tired, and I don’t really have a desire, it somehow dulled.
Outwardly, I am pretty, after test-antibiotic.com the second birth I have not yet fully returned to my original shape, but with a height of 170 I wear 44 clothing sizes. The husband works remotely at home, spends time with his family in the evening, rarely can meet with friends (once every few months), so the presence of a mistress is excluded. But the fact that we have such a sex life cannot but bother me. I understand that the husband gets tired of work, often overworks, plus two more small children, everyday life is present, but not all couples are like that.
By the way, a few years ago, the mother-in-law shared that their sexual life ended early with the father-in-law (I did not discuss our problem with her, she shares a lot with me).
Guys, what do you think is the problem? Does my husband have such a low level of activity in this matter, or have I simply ceased to interest him as a woman and is it a matter of time that he finds another woman? I have never refused sex, but the fact is that he simply does not need it.
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