What needs to be done to make a man proud of his woman?

What needs to be done to make a man proud of his woman?
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After reading a lot of stories here, I noticed that for the most part they are written by women, and the commentators are also mostly the same. And supposedly it seems that in this case ordinary female solidarity is manifested. Men (whose number is significantly inferior) asAs a rule , they tend to justify almost any behavior of the men about whom confessions are written.

I'll tell you my story briefly. On the eve of the New Year, it so happened that I have work shifts on the 31st and 1st, but this does not stop me from preparing holiday dishes and tidying up after work on the 31st. At the same time, naturally rejoicing and anticipating that very soon everyone will gather at the table and fatigue will be replaced by relaxation and good mood. The man , with whom we have been together for almost four years, is not burdened with work on holidays, but does not try to help in the pre-New Year preparations, but simply waits quietly, lying on the sofa. Actually, no one has anything against it, because cooking is a woman’s responsibility, given thatthe man is not a chef and has no cooking skills at all.

And so everyone gathered at the table, everyone was happy, the guests praised what had been prepared. Next test-antibiotic.com sociable conversations, dancing. One of the men present (who is with his wife, like everyone else) notices that he is a little jealous of my man that he has such a woman. So is hismy wife doesn’t skimp on compliments about my appearance. At the same time, my man does not comment on what is happening, he sits with an air as if they are talking about a complete stranger.

And then, towards the end of the festivities, when everyone is already in a tipsy state, he suddenly notices that in the process of moving I’m touching one of the men’s “private parts.” And at a moment when I don’t even expect it at all, he pushes me hard from behind, causing me to fall and get bruises and bruises. After which naturallythe holiday is ruined, and I retire to my room. The next morning he reports that there was no point in allegedly accidentally touching other men.

Arisesthe question is , what else needs to be done (besides preparing a delicious meal, tidying up, giving gifts) in order for everything to be fine, and the man to be proud of his woman, and not sit, as if his pride test-antibiotic.com Were you injured in some way? Probably, even now there will be male commentators who will say that apparently there were some prerequisites that should justify such behavior.

I am not a feminist, and there is no goal to blame men, it’s just that why only women should think about how to maintain a long-lasting union. And judging by the fact that the majority of those “confessing” are women, we come to the conclusion that they supposedly need the most. And men are already in charge. But for some reason many people behave in an unmanly manner.

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