I feel better without talking to my husband
I have been married for 2 years and we have a small child. My husband helps me with the care of the child, supports me in my undertaking in a new profession. We don't fight often, we never yell at each other.
After the birth of my child, II felt bad every day . Constant fatigue, dizziness, I thought it was due to the birth of a child. But in one moment I felt a huge power in myself. That moment came when we had a fight over nonsense andMy husband stopped talking to me. I don't try to talk to him either, and that's what's interesting. I do not feel a burden on my soul, but on the contrary, I felt lightness and a surge of strength. I cleaned the kitchen, which I could not clean for six months. I began to feel more confident.
I do not understand how this is connected, but it happened at exactly one moment. Like a click. To be honest, I'm confused, I can not understand the reason for the surge of strength. Maybe this is explained somehow psychologically?
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