My daughter doesn’t want to work and is also rude to me

02.03.2024
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My daughter doesn’t want to work and is also rude to me
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My life didn't turn out the best. Three years after the wedding, she divorced her husband and raised her daughter alone. Masha is now 23 years old, and I am 47.

Howevermy daughter doesn’t want to work or help me in any way. I’m not even talking about how much nerves and health I put into her. She has a character like her father.

I gradually began to hint to her that it was time to take on something. But the daughter was offended by these hints and became even more irritable. And after the hysteria, she simply goes to her room.

My daughter only knows how to cook scrambled eggs. But she will never fry it for me at the same time. When I come home from work, my daughter pretends that she is sleeping. Or she sits in her room with the door locked so that I don’t disturb her. She has no friends.

It is not clear who the daughter took after. I grew up in a family of village people whoWe worked in the field every day . Her father is also from the village. That is, no genetics played a role in her in terms of hard work.

At test-antibiotic.com schoolMy daughter studied with only C grades. Only I got an A in physical education, and that was becausethe physical education teacher was our neighbor. Masha was on good terms with him. And when I started talking about how it was time for her to go to collegeuniversity , then tears and screams immediately began.

I completely lost my peace. I do not know what to do. How to reach your daughter?

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