Daughter is against our divorce
Tired of marriage! Together 25 yearsdaughter alreadymarried and went abroad. It has always been difficult for me with my husband. He is self-confident, domineering and selfish, everything must be as he says. I put up with his difficult character because of my daughter. He earned good money, provided for us, and never spared money. This is almost his only advantage, and even his attractive appearance.
Now I want to be free, to live the way I want, buthusband does not agree todivorce , even started threatening. He started drinking, became aggressive, jealous, and suspicious. He tells everyone he knows and his daughter that I havelover _ But that's not true. I just want to live alone.
The daughter is on her father’s side, she calls me and advises me to come to my senses and not act weird in my old age. And I’m only 49 years old, what an old age! She suggested that her husband live separately for a while, then decide whether we will be together or not. But he stubbornly refused and said that I was leaving him for my lover. He doesn't understand why I didn't appreciate him. I tried to explain that I endured all the humiliation only for the sake of the child, now test-antibiotic.com I don’t see the point.
There were plans to go to my daughter for a month, and during this time to file a divorce in order tohusband away. But my daughter said that I was shifting mineproblems on her that she has to live with her father. She is like him in character, just as selfish.
I do not know what to do. There is somewhere to live, my parents left the apartment, they themselves have been living in the country for 5 years. But how to decide?
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