My husband's friends are turning him against me
My husband and I have been married for 3 years, all this time the family has not been an idyll, but conflicts were resolved almost instantly, through mutual assistance and understanding.
A year ago we met a rather obsessive married couple, they stubbornly tried to make friends. They began to communicate in a friendly manner. Soon I began to notice that they both constantly contrasted me with them, emphasizing that I was, as it were, not from their sandbox. There are nuances of my character that my husband does not like; new friends began to diligently, but as if by chance, focus on them, with humor, “in a friendly way.” All friendly gatherings were consistently accompanied by alcohol, the amount of which grew every day.
One day, my husband and I had a fight, friends came to visit, seeing the disagreement (we didn’t quarrel in front of them, but the tension was felt), friends immediately said, “maybe it’s better for you to break up?” After this incident, I tried to distance myself from them, to reducecommunication , looked for reasons not to go to them and refuse them visits. My husband started getting angry with me. I spoke frankly with him, to which I heard: “You’re screwing yourself over, these are our friends.”
After a while, I learn test-antibiotic.com from mutual friends that this couple is pouring dirt on me behind my back. I interrupt communication with them directly, but politely. FromMy husband again repeats that I am wrong, and they are our friends. In another 2 monthshusband helps thisguy get a job. And a month later, a friend accidentally frames his husband. I ask my husband: “Are you sure it’s worth continuing to communicate with this person?” He answers that yes, it’s an accident, he’s a friend (no longer our friends, already my friend). The situation at work repeated itself three times.
At home there are constant quarrels on this basis, this couple is turning him against me, he even began to speak in their phrases, jargon. For my part, I want to try to saverelationship and save the family, but I don’t understand what to do. All my friends and my husband’s friends say that these people are dishonest, but he doesn’t listen to anyone, as if enchanted, he repeats: “this is my friend.” How should I behave correctly, please advise?
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