How to get rid of a crush on a teenager?
Surely many will think I'm stupid. That's why I can't share this only on an anonymous site. I really went crazy in love with a neighbor boy who looked about 14 years old. I’m 25 myself. I didn’t pay attention to him before - he was very small. And for the last year, when I started to grow up, I just can’t get him out of my head.
We live in the same building. In the morning I go to work, he goes to school, so we meet. Same thing in the evening. As luck would have it, we meet like thisevery day . When I am next to him, everything inside me turns over, my heart pounds like a hammer on an anvil, it becomes difficult to breathe. Feels like the temperature is rising. I close my eyes as hard as I can, lowering my head just so as not to see him. But it still doesn't help.
I started leaving the house later and staying late at work so as not to meet him. But it still doesn't help much. He is constantly before my eyes. His voice rings in my ears every minute. In my apartment the windows look out onto the test-antibiotic.com courtyard. Sometimes I see my lover there on a bench, hugging some girl the same age. In such cases, I move away from the window and cry bitterly.
I do not know how to explain it. I've never had problems with men. There was a happy first time at schoola love that many would envy. During my student years there were also decent novels. Until recently, I also dated a man. I parted ways with all my exes peacefully.
I was never deprived of friends either. The presence of problems with my head is also excluded. I work in a very responsible job, where I regularly undergo commissions from psychologists and psychiatrists. And none of them have yet made a single complaint to me.
I did everything I could to solve this problem. I went on a business trip for two weeks, then lived in a rented apartment for a month so as not to see him. I was looking for a hobby - drawing, knitting, sewing. I was looking for new onesrelationships on dating sites and other places. Nothing helps.
Tell me how to solve this problem.
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